House of 9

So today was the second day of my exam...
and I think, i think.... it's ok.
But this is not what i wanted to say today.

Today's topic would be about staying together in a house of 9 people.
If in the beginning everyone lives together harmoniously,
I can confirm, eventually conflict will just happen out of no where ...

I'm really getting tired of all these conflicts.

I'm not happy with what you did, you are not happy with what I did...

I mean, isn't staying together a happy thing ?

What I wanted to say was,
all of us came from different places, came from different families.
Of course we would have different habits and different ways of looking into things and problems,
we will have different perspective,
you cannot force people to do it in your way and stuff,

and that's where compromising comes in.

If you don't like the way it's done,
then just calmly discuss about the issue... Not using that kind of complaining tone right ?
Am I right ?

I mean, when people throw a blame on you, the first thing you will do is to defend yourself  and not thinking is it really my fault, and this is where a fight begins. And then the problem will still be there and both of the parties will not be happy about each other.

Tolerate and compromising, this is what everyone needs right now. including me of course.